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7 Steps to Manage Alzheimer’s Behaviors…
(This article is by my colleague Paula Spencer Scott, author of the book Surviving Alzheimer’s: Practical Tips and Soul-Saving Wisdom for Caregivers. I invited her to share an article on this topic, since many in our community are coping with dementia behaviors. — L. Kernisan) The odd behaviors of Alzheimer’s and other dementias can be so

End of Life Planning Made Easy…
Living wills. Advance directives. Powers of attorney for healthcare. Making your wishes known. Many older adults have never gotten around to addressing these issues, and of those who have, many are overdue for a review. After all, this is not something where you should “set-it-and-forget-it.” Especially not if you completed the paperwork with a lawyer

13 Must-Know Websites, Books & Resources…
This month — November — is National Family Caregivers Month. If you’ve been in any way assisting another adult with managing health concerns or life tasks, you qualify as one of the estimated 40 million family caregivers in the US. Such help often starts out with small things, such as helping an older relative get

How to Make Hospitalization Better &…
As you may know, hospitalization is actually somewhat risky for older adults. This is sometimes surprising to older adults and families. After all, hospitals are supposed to be places where people who are ill or injured can get the medical supervision and services that they need, to recover and be restored to health. Well, it’s

5 Easy Ways to Connect with…
When is the last time you had a really meaningful conversation with someone from a different generation? And who was it with? Was it with a grandchild? A niece? Your own parent? A neighbor? Or maybe even the person standing next to you in line at the store? While these types of connections happen every day

How to Know How Well It…
As everyone knows, the COVID-19 pandemic has caused a public health — and societal — crisis of epic proportions. The impact has been especially severe on older adults, who are more likely to be severely affected by COVID, and who represent a distressingly high proportion of the U.S.’s COVID deaths. But, in an amazing feat

6 Steps to Take When Aging…
Have you noticed worrisome changes in your aging parent? Maybe they’ve been mostly okay but now you’re seeing problems with memory, such as forgetfulness or asking the same questions repeatedly. Or maybe you’ve noticed trouble with driving, keeping up the house, managing stairs, or paying bills. Some aging parents simply begin to seem more withdrawn.

What to Know & Do
You probably already know that many older adults develop problems managing finances as they age. Now how would you answer the questions below: Has your aging parent planned for a decline in financial abilities? Are you prepared to detect signs of a financial decline? Do you know what to do if you do notice problems with

A 5-Step Approach to Navigating Difficult…
Q: My mother is 76 and has Alzheimer’s disease. She had a couple of unavoidable stays last year in the hospital (due to falls). This accelerated her decline due to delirium, which was treated as if she was just being an unruly and difficult patient. Once my sister and I understood what was going on

Sex When Caregiving: Navigating Your Changing…
(This article is part 2 of a special guest series by geriatrician Dr. Nicole Didyk, founder of the blog and YouTube channel The Wrinkle. Like me, Dr. Didyk has a particular interest in informing and empowering older adults and families. So I’ve been very glad to have her contributing to the site these past few